How many people do you know who have this gravitas thing? I bet it’s a short list. Michelle Obama will be up there.
Now ask who makes you personally feel respected, liberated and able to really think at your best. It’ll be a different list but I bet Michelle will still be on it.
The real secret of gravitas is how you make others feel, how you can liberate and ignite their own potential.
These are the people we will walk through walls for. These are the people we would like to elect.
The real secret to gravitas or executive presence is about ease. It is about being able to be genuinely interested in what others have to say because you are not worried about yourself.
It’s about allowing others’ great thinking and potential to flourish because you personally don’t have to control, to be certain, to impress or rush.
Yes, you do need to really know your stuff 6 questions deep and people need to know you are resilient under fire.
Yes, you do need to own and communicate your own point of view in a compelling way.
Yes, you do need to learn to adapt your style to connect with different people and cultures. You do need to make good decisions and execute well.
But the real gravitas, the real secret that makes this possible? That’s about being able to ignite others to fly.
You can absolutely be this person with just a little work.
Whether you are an introvert, an extravert, a young leader or an established leader adapting to a new role.
That’s what we coach at KineticFuture.
We’re often asked why do you blend psychology with the physicality of theatre skills? Why is this resilience and positive leadership malarkey relevant? And what’s with this neuroscience bit and obsession about your planning tools for a communications strategy?
Because these are the skills you need to be genuinely, deep down, long term successful when you are battling real life. And these are the keys to open up yourself to new and exciting personal possibilities.
If you’d like to find out how you or your colleagues could be coached on HOW you can learn to do this, email us a quick “yes please”. And we’ll get in touch for a chat.